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5 sfaturi pentru mine, cea de acum 5 ani

Am fost provocata acum cateva saptamani de Floria.ro (care implineste 5 ani frumosi) sa scriu 5 sfaturi pentru mine, cea care eram acum 5 ani. Abia pe la Cluj, relaxata am reusit sa imi fac timp pentru o mica retrospectiva.

Am realizat ca au trecut 5 ani de cand am schimbat prefixul cu 3, 5 ani de cand am divortat, 5 ani de cand am cautat sa imi schimb domeniul de activitate. Cum ajungi de la industria hoteliera, wellness club la lifestyle blogger si restaurant raw vegan? Nu am nici cea mai mica idee, dar imi place al naibii de mult ceea ce fac acum. Bine, recunosc ca si perioada in care am lucrat la clubul de wellness a fost o perioada frumoasa din viata mea. Anyway!

Ce mi-as spune mie?

Draga Carmen,

1. Exista viata dupa divort!!!!Oh, da. Libera sa te descoperi ca persoana, sa comunic libera, sa descoperi oameni, libera sa citesti reviste fashion fara sa te critice cineva. Si mai zic inca o data: OH, DA!!!

2.  Crezi ca deranjul din casa este cea mai mare problema? Asteapta sa ai copii adolescenti. Ceea ce s-a si intamplat. Acum avem probleme de genul: la ce ora intram in casa, pe cine putem sa invitam acasa cand nu este mama, cum sa nu radem la glumele proaste ale unora doar ca sa le fim pe plac si multe, multe altele.

3. Daca vrei sa fii in forma peste 5 ani incepe ACUM! Anul trecut eram nemultumita pentru ca abdomenul meu nu era foarte sculptat. Anul acesta imi doresc sa fie macar cum era anul trecut. Adica intotdeauna vreau mai mult, dar nu ma antrenez mai mult. Sper macar sa reusesc sa fiu constanta, pentru ca timp nu am oricum niciodata.

4. Nu te stresa!!! La 35 de ani o sa arati mai tanara decat acum :))))) Dupa nu stiu cate incercari hairstylistice cred ca am ajuns la coafura care ma reprezinta. Nu garantez insa ca nu o sa ma plictisesc de ea.

5. Fereste-ma, Doamne, de prieteni, ca de dusmani ma feresc singura! Intelepciunea asta vine odata cu varsta, cand intelegi ca doar 0,01 din prietenii sunt adevarate si familia este tot ce ai real.

La multi ani Floria.ro!!!

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5 pieces of advice for the person I was 5 years ago

I was challenged a few weeks ago by Floria.ro (which celebrates 5 beautiful years) to write 5 pieces of advice for me, the one from 5 years ago. Only relaxed, in Cluj I made time for a little retrospective.

I realized that 5 years have passed since I changed my prefix with 3, 5 years since I’ve divorced, 5 years since I’ve looked to change my domain of activity. How do you get from hotel industry to wellness club to lifestyle blogger and raw vegan restaurant? I haven’t got the slightest idea, but I freaking love what I’m doing right now. Well, I admit that the time I worked at the wellness club was also a great period in my life. Anyway!

What would I tell to myself?

Dear Carmen,

1. There is life after divoce! Oh, yes. Free to discover yourself as a person, to communicate freely, to meet people, free to read fashion magazines without someone criticizing you. And I say once again: Hell, yes!!

2. You think the mess in the house is the biggest problem? Wait until you have teenage kids.  Thing which happened. Now we have problems like: when do we get back home, who can we invite home when mom is not here, how should we not laugh at someone’s joke just to please them and many, many others.

3. If you want to be in good shape in 5 years start now! Last year I wasn’t pleased because my abs didn’t look really great. Now I wish it could be at least like it was last year. So I always want more, but I don’t exercise more. I hope at least to manage to be constant, because I never have time for more exercise.

4. Don’t stress! At 35 years you will look younger than now. After many hairstyle attempts, I think I found the one that represents me. But I don’t guarantee that I’m not going to get bored of it.

5. Preserve me from friends, God, because I can preserve myself from the enemies. Wisdom comes with age, when you understand that only 0,01 of friendships are true and family is the most real thing you’ve got.

Happy birthday, Floria.ro!!!

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  • Ana Maria Blog

    Foarte frumos articolul, l-am citit cu drag 🙂

    http://fashionsofa.net

    august 6, 2015 at 10:03 AM Răspunde
  • Claudia

    Esti o femeie frumoasa, puternica si inteligenta! Tot raul spre bine , nu? :-p

    septembrie 30, 2015 at 9:38 PM Răspunde
  • carmi merisanu

    Esti un om absolut minunat. Te admir extrem de mult.

    septembrie 27, 2017 at 12:52 PM Răspunde

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